Scripture:
Genesis 42
Observation:
Appearances can be deceiving! “Masking” is rampant in this chapter. You know, trying to look good even though you really feel terrible? A mask, according to the New Oxford American Dictionary is “a covering for all or part of the face, in particular; ... a disguise or pretense.”
Joseph is a wounded soul, longing for acceptance from his family. Joseph’s brothers are guilty and afraid. Jacob is fearful. And they are hiding these feelings from each other. Joseph hides his emotions from his brothers by turning away (v. 24). Joseph’s brothers think they are hiding their emotions because there is an interpreter between them (v. 23). And Jacob tries to hide from his fear by keeping his youngest son at home (v. 38).
Application:
Women are experts at masking. You know what I’m talking about. The response to the question “how are you?” is a smile and a “fine, thank you” even though inside your heart is breaking in a million pieces. We hide behind superficiality, even though healing for the pain we feel inside can be found through (safe) relationships.
As a church (by “church” I am referring to the people who make up the body of Christ, not a particular local congregation) we need to learn how to be a safe place for one another. While our ultimate comfort comes from God, He often uses other people to show us that comfort:
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, Who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (emphasis mine)Prayer:
Father, thank You for providing Your comfort to me in times of distress. Forgive me for times when I delay in seeking the comfort You so freely offer, and help me to be a comfort to others. Help us, Your children, learn how to develop safe relationships. Thank You for the privilege of comforting one another! In Jesus’ Name, amen.
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